Yesterday evening I was sitting on my couch. Next to me sat my lovely wife of more than 45 years - our anniversary was on 05 Jan. As she cuddled against me I observed with satisfaction that even as she moves gracefully towards 70, her hair still is its same lovely strawberry-blond color. Oh, there are a few silver strands here and there, but not many. The color is natural; she does not dye it. That thought started a background process in my brain about which I have been mulling since.
We were sharing watching the live performance of the musical play Rent, which was being broadcast in honor of 23 years of staging. The first large-group musical number is called "Seasons of Love", and it begins with a phrase that is repeated by various singers as a background throughout the number.
"Five hundred ninety-nine thousand, six hundred minutes ..." they chanted. It's the amount of time in a standard Solarian year. The play itself is about a year in the life of people in New York City who live in the slums, trying to make their rent each month. It looks (hard) at their lives as they struggle just to make ends meet. "But why does that have anything to do with the Honorverse?" you might quite reasonably ask. Where is this meandering post going? I'll tell you, if you will be so kind as to listen to an old man's mutterings.
I also finally have gotten around to reading Mr. Weber's most recent book about Honor Harrington. Currently, I'm about in the middle, reading slowly, savoring it. And these three things came together in what I fervently hope is a logical and inevitable manner. You see, that background refrain from the play goes on:
"... It's about love - love - seasons of love." The play describes all kinds of personal love, from what we think of as a first flash upon hearing that word (romantic besottment) through courting, intimacy, and lasting commitment to old age together. And it includes all flavors. It also includes love of community and country. Rather like the mind-glow kinds of things David writes, in fact: concern for those about us, personal affection, appreciation of the wonders of the world(s) on which we live, dedication to service to others, preservation of our natural resources, advancement of knowledge and understanding - and most of all, standing up against evil and darkness that would overwhelm these things, ... just because it's the right thing to do.
By the way, I'm working through my 75th year. Now, let's see. 599,600 times 75?
That is 44,970,000. Then add 2700 for the 18.75 leap days. 44,997,000 Minutes. I will. Have lived.
And I got to pondering on how many of them I have spent loving. And letting myself be loved. Not nearly enough of them. That's a fact.
So I have thrown away all of my great, wonderful, and thoroughly self-centered and conceited New Years resolutions. Instead, I have resolve that this year I am going to concentrate on seeing ... really noticing ... all the chances I have in my life to experience and give love. That is what this wandering post is about.
Let us open our eyes. Look around us. Get up each day resolved to see love that is extended to us, however casually or indirectly, from whatever source, and pass it on to at least two people. I think I can guarantee that if we do that we will be far too busy to argue, feel spiteful, or hold a grudge.
Oh. And of course, do it with Honor.
We were sharing watching the live performance of the musical play Rent, which was being broadcast in honor of 23 years of staging. The first large-group musical number is called "Seasons of Love", and it begins with a phrase that is repeated by various singers as a background throughout the number.
"Five hundred ninety-nine thousand, six hundred minutes ..." they chanted. It's the amount of time in a standard Solarian year. The play itself is about a year in the life of people in New York City who live in the slums, trying to make their rent each month. It looks (hard) at their lives as they struggle just to make ends meet. "But why does that have anything to do with the Honorverse?" you might quite reasonably ask. Where is this meandering post going? I'll tell you, if you will be so kind as to listen to an old man's mutterings.
I also finally have gotten around to reading Mr. Weber's most recent book about Honor Harrington. Currently, I'm about in the middle, reading slowly, savoring it. And these three things came together in what I fervently hope is a logical and inevitable manner. You see, that background refrain from the play goes on:
"... It's about love - love - seasons of love." The play describes all kinds of personal love, from what we think of as a first flash upon hearing that word (romantic besottment) through courting, intimacy, and lasting commitment to old age together. And it includes all flavors. It also includes love of community and country. Rather like the mind-glow kinds of things David writes, in fact: concern for those about us, personal affection, appreciation of the wonders of the world(s) on which we live, dedication to service to others, preservation of our natural resources, advancement of knowledge and understanding - and most of all, standing up against evil and darkness that would overwhelm these things, ... just because it's the right thing to do.
By the way, I'm working through my 75th year. Now, let's see. 599,600 times 75?
That is 44,970,000. Then add 2700 for the 18.75 leap days. 44,997,000 Minutes. I will. Have lived.
And I got to pondering on how many of them I have spent loving. And letting myself be loved. Not nearly enough of them. That's a fact.
So I have thrown away all of my great, wonderful, and thoroughly self-centered and conceited New Years resolutions. Instead, I have resolve that this year I am going to concentrate on seeing ... really noticing ... all the chances I have in my life to experience and give love. That is what this wandering post is about.
Let us open our eyes. Look around us. Get up each day resolved to see love that is extended to us, however casually or indirectly, from whatever source, and pass it on to at least two people. I think I can guarantee that if we do that we will be far too busy to argue, feel spiteful, or hold a grudge.
Oh. And of course, do it with Honor.
Respectfully submitted,
Sir John Fairbairn, GCE, GACM
CDR, RMN
XO, HMS Javelin (DD-264)
Director, TRMN Historical Society
In Honor of the Queen!
Sir John Fairbairn, GCE, GACM
CDR, RMN
XO, HMS Javelin (DD-264)
Director, TRMN Historical Society
In Honor of the Queen!